Kyla surprise called me yesterday. She’s a girl I have written to a few times on match.com after her initial contact. I had already dismissed her in my head, but she called unexpectedly.

We talked about music, books, a little bit of movies. Bruce the Shark. Some fantasy books. Sci fi. Working for Christmas. Her cats. I was bored during the conversation. I’m bored writing about it.

In moments when I’m bored, I should just go for it. Explain what I’m looking for in a very raw way. Describe my situation honestly. Why can’t I vocalize this to another person in real time?